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To Whom Do I Speak

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I am 55 years old, yes,  I am a mother, yes,my children are grown, yes my heart still full of love, pride, concern and hope for my sons. Some of these facts may be similar to yours some not.

This blog is meant for All mothers and women to relate to one another, no matter your age.  Young mothers can read and learn, mid life moms like me can relate to this stage of life and wiser and older moms can reminisce over these perhaps familiar times.

We all are faced with joys and  trials in daily living. The challenge or rather reality is that we don’t know at age 20 something, perhaps married or single, children or no children and All the details around which we find ourselves in, that we actually have so much in common with other woman we know.

We tend to be free and talkative when we have something exciting to share, the joys are easy to expound on. Everyone celebrates. In trials however, we tend to allow ourselves to think we are the only ones experiencing this or that. We can stay distant or superficial when a real trial comes. Pretending everything is fine , when it is not… been there.

Life can be hard, life can be full of disappointments (with ourselves and others) , life can have unexpected turns that we never expected.  I mention these because I have experienced them in my life.

I am so grateful to have many women at this stage in life that are my friends.  It wasn’t always so. We prayed that I would make more friends and God answered that prayer. They are out there, waiting for you.  we were meant for relationship.

Take a minute to listen or share something with someone that you have not opened your heart to.  You may be surprised that it was just what they ( and you) needed.

I have also learned over the years in both the joys and the trials that we are not alone.  Not only are we not alone in community of women around us, but we are also not alone in that (what I believe) God is always with us. He is always with me. He is always ready to celebrate and to comfort no matter the time of day or the dynamic of the situation.

Take a minute to spend time with God, even if it is the first time.  He is there waiting for you. When you find him, you will spend more than  minute,  I guarantee it.

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Spending a Minute in Texas…. My First

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So here we are in Texas, my Mother and I….  we took a Minute (or two) and headed down to Austin to meet my mother’s cousins for the first time.  It is our first time to Texas as well.

Mary and Teresa Evan, my mother is Edna Faye Evans… their fathers are half brothers (same father).  There are also two others, Susan and Mike who live in their hometown in Minnesota.  The names are different because my grandfather had the spelling changed. On a Document from the late 1800’s as our ancestors came from Prussia, the name was spelled Even and Iwan. There are many reasons for name spelling being changed during this time.

I am not really into Genealogy but what a wonderful blessing to meet family that we never knew existed. Now after three days of adventurous bonding we feel like true ‘kin’ bonded forever as family.

Thank you Mary and Mom for working so hard (and spending many Minutes) connecting the dots of our family. For those of you that do not have family may you discover the bonds of family from friends and perhaps even uncovering distant relatives that can now begin a legacy of family for you.

and… we are ALL part of God’s family, Every One……

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Brevity- The quality of being brief, shortness of time…

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Do you ever wonder where the time has gone?  or if you have taken life for granted with business and being hurried that you missed out on what was really important?

I do. I have.

Now that I am older I am trying… trying to savor each precious day and cherish each moment, giving thanks for each person and their purpose in my life.

I also try to live life fully and deliberately touching the lives of those I love and even those I do not even know.

One thing I know.  Life is short,  We are each given the same 24 hours each day to spend how we choose.  Choose Wisely.

Daisy, a wife, mother and friend…

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So I ask my self this morning as my friend Daisy is close to leaving this earth and going into Glory, what will her last minutes be like? What would she have said to her husband and daughters if she could have spoken for one last Minute, had she not been in pain or “made comfortable” because of the pain.
I do know , by others testimony and my own experience, that Daisy was a woman of faith that stood strong even in her weakest moments (and there were too many). Her faith did not waiver, she knew God was her strength and her salvation and she would not be moved.
How we spend our minutes each day are so very precious. I am very thankful that when I had a few minutes on Monday (while at the hospital with my stepdaughter) I went to see Daisy. That few minutes turned into 2 hours. I will not go into details how that time was spent , but it was time I will not forget. God is good to bless us when we listen and act upon the ‘small voice’ that directs us to something important. So my encouragement today is to Listen and respond to any leading that you feel in your spirit. You will end up blessing others and end your days in peace knowing you have done your part in this big world.
Goodbye precious Daisy…. see you soon.

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“The test of first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function”

F Scott Fitzgerald
the next line is… ” One should, for example be able to see things are hopeless and yet be determined to make them otherwise”…

I think all Mothers are of the highest of first-rate intelligence…. always juggling logic of the mind with the power of the heart…. and Very Determined.

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